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Dad Ordered to Support Donor Sperm Quads

Estoppel The principle of paternity by default and legal presumption

estoppel : A legal bar to alleging or denying a fact because of one's own previous actions or words to the contrary
   Although the legal industry uses the term estoppel in a large variety of circumstances to rationalize all sort of outrageous decisions, the term acquired a degree of infamy through its continuing and escalating wholesale application in assigning to men that were made the victims of paternity fraud obligations related to paternity for children they did not father and whom those "fathers" may not even ever have seen.

From the Glossary of terms used in the politics of sex

With unilateral reproductive "choice" comes unilateral responsibility.  But since the unspoken principle here is that women are not to be held competent for their individual choices for what they do with their bodies, then if anyone should pay child support it should be the sperm donor and/or the clinic/doctor whose actions caused this obligation for the unwilling father. Fathers should be allowed to sue these people and any laws that provide a shield should be ruled unconstitutional.

However, if a marriage holds a man responsible for his spouse's choices, he then should have equivalent rights to those choices.  In other words, marriage or no, individuals should be held responsible for their unilateral actions.  Equality under the law.  No exceptions.


Dad Ordered to Support Donor Sperm Quads

Judge says biology not an issue

By Lori Litchman
Pennsylvania Law Weekly
Monday, March 15, 1999 

Acting as a father lends more weight than actually supplying the sperm to create the child, a Monroe County Common Pleas Court judge has ruled, giving a boost to supporters of Pennsylvania's widely debated presumption of paternity doctrine.

In Turczyn v. Turczyn, PICS Case No. 99-0424, Monroe County Common Pleas Court Judge Edward D. Reibman ruled that a woman who gave birth to quadruplets she conceived with donor sperm through artificial insemination without her husband's knowledge or consent has the right to child support.

"Husband is precluded from denying his parental responsibilities to the quadruplets," wrote Reibman. "The quadruplets were conceived and born during the marriage. Husband presented no evidence to conclude he either had no access to wife or was physically incapable of procreation at the time of conceptions."

Reibman also said paternity by estoppel applied to the case, saying that the husband asked for his name to be on the birth certificates of the babies and provided financial support to the children for the first several months of their lives.

"It is not enough to say, as husband does now, that he is not the biological father [that is: natural fathers] of the quadruplets and, therefore, has no obligation to support them," wrote Reibman. "The doctrine of estoppel was created so that regardless of biology, the person who has cared for the child is the parent."


According to the opinion, from the time they were married in 1991, the marriage between Debbie Turczyn and Michael Turczyn was riddled with arguments, protection from abuse orders and separations.

The husband had two children from a previous marriage and before the Turczyns got married, the couple decided they wanted to have children together. The wife underwent several rounds of fertility treatments, all ending in failed attempts at pregnancy.

The husband paid for all of these fertility treatments. After the failed attempts, they decided in November 1996 to try another round of fertility treatments. During the procedure, the couple had an argument and separated. At this time, the husband asked for a divorce and told the fertility doctor there would be no more treatments.

The same day the husband asked for a divorce, the wife found out she had 10 eggs, the best response to all of the fertility treatments she had undergone.

"At this point, wife was 39 years old. She felt she had been taking care of husband's children for seven years and wanted children of her own," wrote Reibman. "She concluded this would be her last chance to become pregnant. She went to the fertility doctor on Nov. 18, 1996, and told him she wanted to proceed with the procedure despite Husband's objections and asked to use donor sperm."

The husband did not have any knowledge of this procedure and did not give consent.

In the beginning of December the wife found out that she was pregnant. By the middle of the month, the couple had reconciled.

At this point the husband said he wanted his wife to undergo more fertility treatments to have children. The wife then told him she was already pregnant from donor sperm.

The husband then said he would treat the child as his own and when the couple found out that there were four embryos, jointly decided against selective reduction.

When the children were born, the husband said he wanted his name on their birth certificates, named two of the babies and gave the children his last name.

Because the children were born prematurely, they had an extended hospital stay. The husband paid for all the medical bills.

The children came home from the hospital and the husband remained at the home until March 15, 1998 when the couple had an argument, ending in the wife filing for a protection from abuse order and a divorce.


The issues surrounding the presumption of paternity have been widely debated around the state for some time, primarily over whether biology or behavior should have a bigger role legally defining the nature of being a father.

Most recently, in Miscovich v. Miscovich PICS Case No. 97-0083, the Supreme Court affirmed a lower court ruling that said DNA test results that proved the defendant was not the father could not be used as evidence.

The court's decision, however, was an evenly split decision. Justice Thomas Saylor did not participate in the opinion.

Two other cases of significance -- Strauser v. Stahr, PICS Case No. 97-2664, and Fish v. Behers, PICS Case No. 97-0331 Tamilia, J.; Cirillo, J., concurring; Eakin, J. concurring in result; Johnson, J. dissenting; Schiller and Kelly, J.J., dissenting; Ford Elliot, J., dissenting (61 pages) -- currently before the Supreme Court now could set guidelines for determining the factors of fatherhood for the court.


In Turczyn the judge cited Brinkley v. King, PICS Case No. 97-1991 Flaherty, C.J.; Nigro, J., concurring and dissenting; Newman and Castille, J.J., concurring and dissenting; Zappala, J., concurring (37 pages), to support the finding that the Turczyn should pay child support to his wife.

In Brinkley, the Supreme Court said: "If a certain person has acted as the parent and bonded with the child, the child should not be required to suffer the potentially damaging trauma that may come from being told that the father he has known all his life is not in fact his father."

The court said because Turczyn acted as the father, under paternity by estoppel, the father could not deny his parental responsibilities.

"He held himself out to the public as the father of the quadruplets," wrote Reibman. "Indeed, from the time wife told husband of the circumstances of her pregnancy, during the ensuing pregnancy and for the first eight and one-half months of the quadruplets' lives, it is hard to imagine what else an approving, supportive, nurturing and bonding father could provide to the quadruplets."

But Reibman also admitted that it was unclear to him whether the presumption of paternity could be rigidly applied in Turczyn.

"Is this the type of 'functioning marital unit' the presumption was designed to bolster? Can it be said that history will not repeat itself and, in this case, the parties current separation is but a monetary [sic] spat in a relationship in which instability and multiple separations and reconciliations are the norms as sure as night follows day? Perhaps that is the problem with anything short of either a rigid application of the presumption or a complete abandonment of it."

Regardless of the confusion, the judge did rule that the presumption applied because the quadruplets were born during the course of the marriage and the husband could not prove he was unable to procreate.


The husband's lawyer, John Karoly Jr., of the Allentown firm, Karoly Law Offices P.C., said he is waiting to see if he can file a direct appeal to the state Supreme Court.

Karoly said the direct appeal would be most effective for him and his client because he thinks this is a case of first impression that has statewide implications.

He argued that the presumption of paternity was not a debatable issue in this case. The husband's lawyer, James L. Heidecker Jr., could not be reached for comment.

"The reason why this statute doesn't apply is because we weren't seeking a determination of paternity," said Karoly. "We know who the father is. In this case, there was no paternity determination requested . . . yet the court invoked the presumption of paternity. We think it is a terribly wrong decision by a good judge."

Karoly said he hopes this case will push the Supreme Court to make the determination that biological fatherhood is the sole determination of support.

Notes and links:

  • estop: to impede by estoppel
  • estoppel: a legal bar to alleging or denying a fact because of one's own previous actions or words to the contrary (from the Glossary of terms used in the politics of sex)
  • Paternity Issues: Far from being a rare decision, the court decision described in the article quoted on this page is a reflection of an escalating pandemic of paternity assignments to men that are not the natural fathers of children for whom they provide financial support. (That financial support is never paid to the child.  It is always paid to the mother, regardless of what she uses that money for.)  Often it happens that the judicially or bureaucratically assigned fathers do not even get to see the children for whom they are being forced to pay.  The child for whom a father is forced to pay does not even need to exist. (See The Virtual Child)

....To make absolutely sure that you will never be raked over the coals for child support for a child that you think is yours and that isn't, get a DNA test done right at birth of any child you are said to have fathered.  If a given child isn't yours but you accept it as yours without raising an objection, the principle of estoppel will then come into play, and you will with virtual certainty still be held responsible to support that child financially until it reaches the age of majority or finishes college, whichever comes later.  It doesn't matter whether you will be part of that child's life or not or whether you have even been barred from ever seeing that child.  You will be deemed to be a one-legged cheque-book, a prick with a wallet.  You will be forced to pay! (From Advice to Men)

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2007 12 05 (added quotes of and links to definitions of estoppel)