The Myths and Barriers That Keep Men from Being the Fathers They Want to Be
By Ross D. Parke and Armin A. Brott
ISBN: 0-395-6041-5, Pages: 272, Price: $ 24.00 HC
Are fathers biologically unfit to parent? Are organizations such as Promise Keepers and NOW helping or hurting fathers? Why, in a society whose definition of "parents" has expanded to include same sex partners, do we perpetuate the 50s philosophy that a father's main role is that of "provider?"
Fathers are, of course, vital to child rearing. Studies have proven that children with active fathers are far happier and better adjusted than those without. Despite this, we are bombarded with negative images: in movies and television shows fathers are portrayed as uninterested, lazy, or bumbling; newspapers and magazines are full of stories about neglectful, abusive, or deadbeat dads. The overall message is consistent-fathers are not nearly as important as mothers to the family.
In Throwaway Dads, Armin Brott and Ross Parke explode these myths and examine other obstacles that prohibit fathers from having deep relationships with their children, thereby hurting children and our society as a whole. They look at the dubious achievements of both the men's and women's movements in reevaluating the roles of both sexes, and discuss actions people of each gender can take to counteract the damage. They also dissect ways that corporations have limited fathers' roles, and detail how companies can be more "father friendly." Furthermore, they suggest steps in addition to the Family and Medical Leave Act that our government can take to ensure that dads are allowed to play an active role in raising their children, and to encourage them to do so.
Brott and Parke contend that men want to be better dads, and a first step in reaching this goal is to increase awareness of the barriers they face. This book is an invitation to explore these issues and to join in the process of getting men more involved.
Ross Parke has six children and is a professor of psychology at the University of California at Riverside. He has more than thirty years of experience researching and writing about fatherhood. Armin Brott is the father of two girls and lives in Berkeley, California. He has written about fatherhood for the New York Times and the Washington Post, and has discussed the topic often on radio and television, including the Today show. His previous books are The Expectant Father, The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year, and A Dad's Guide to the Toddler Years.
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